Rodeos, Cowboys, and The Fajita Hat

Rodeo season is kicking off in Texas right now, with some of the larger stock shows and rodeos under way, or soon to begin. If you aren’t familiar with the customs and traditions of rodeo, you may think it’s just those crazy bull riders you see on TV, guys with a death wish more suited to reality TV. Those with some skin in the game know that it’s much more than that.

The sport known as Rodeo got its start in the early 1800’s. Cowboys would “gather” at the end of long cattle drives and hold informal competitions amongst themselves to prove who was the best roper, drover, steer wrestler, etc. It was done in the spirit of friendly competition, and a way to wind down from long periods on tough drives.

When barbed wire later started going up around cattle country, and the open ranges became a thing of the past, many cowboys found themselves unemployed. Many of these cowboys joined travelling Wild West Shows, where they put their skills to use in theatrical performances designed to entertain audiences with stories of the old west. This was when the additions of trick roping, stunt riding, fancy shooting, and the more theatrical skill shows were added to the cowboy repertoire.

Yes folks it’s true—and I hate to be the one to tell you—prior to the Wild West Show, real cowboys DID NOT do hand stands on their galloping horse, wear sparkles on their shirts, or Double Dutch through their spinning lassoes. The end of open range ranching turned a bunch of rough and rowdy tough guys into little more than stage performers.

Eventually, the Wild West shows began to fade away, due to the higher costs associated with producing them. But the essential competitive elements remained, and even flourished in the time since.

In small and even large towns across rural America, rodeo gatherings are the most anticipated local events of the year. Local and visiting cowboys and cowgirls compete to see which is best at roping, riding, wrestling, bronco busting, bull riding, barrel racing, horsemanship, and more.

Many of the bigger modern rodeos also include stock show events, as well as family fairs. There are musical acts, family dances, carnivals, and Rodeo Queen pageants in their lineups. Aside from an ample supply of fair food, expect competitions such as chili cook-offs, pie baking competitions, and jam and jelly contests.

If you aren’t from an area where rodeo is part of the local tradition, you may see it as simply a collective bunch of competitions. One where people gather one week or so a year, see who is best at this, that, or the other, and then return home again to try again next year. But you would be wrong in that.

So, what does rodeo mean to the people who have grown up with it?

True to the meaning of the word, Rodeo is about gathering together and celebrating the history, and the present, of the American farmer, rancher, and cowboy. It is very much similar to the original cowboy gatherings at the end of the long cattle drive. It may be seen as theatrics and show for city dwellers, but these men and women are often showing off skills on rodeo weekend that they use every day in their life on the ranch.

When livestock needs to be moved from one pasture to another, cowboys herd them. When a calf goes astray, he will be roped and brought back to the herd. On smaller family ranches, branding is still done the old-fashioned way—by wrestling the calf to the ground. They aren’t really born with birthmarks in the shape of the ranch brand.

Horses, by the way, are not born under saddle with bits in their mouths. Someone has to teach a horse to accept a halter, a saddle, a bit, and eventually a rider. This is not done by reasoning and negotiation. This is done with grit, determination and fortitude on the part of the cowboy, and a lot of bucking, thrashing, twisting and general “having none of it” on the part of the horse. Once the horse will accept the idea of it all, then he is taught how to respond to verbal commands, to pressure applied by the rider’s leg on his side, to the pull of the reins. If he will be used for more than pleasure riding, he will have to learn to jump, or to pull equipment, or to cut a herd of cattle. These things take substantial investments of time, as well as substantial skill.

The rodeo is a way of showcasing those skills to the public, as well as to stage some friendly competition among the cowboys and cowgirls.

Kids that are in FFA (Future Farmers of America) and 4-H spend much time before and after school all year-long raising prized pigs, goats, chickens, milk cows, horses, and every manner of livestock. The stock show is where their hard work pays off, as their animals are auctioned off to raise money for college, or for investment in their future projects. The buyers at auction will often use these prize animals to improve the quality of their own stock. Everyone’s a winner.

Families may also showcase their harvest of fruit, vegetables, fresh eggs and grains. Some will display their preserved and canned foods, their pickles, and their baked goods. There are displays of handmade quilts, antique collections, and taxidermy.

But even above and beyond all that, rodeo is about community. Not just a place for the community to come together for a few days out of the year, but about giving back to the community. Many rodeos, big and small, include a component that establishes and funds college scholarships.

In San Antonio, the San Antonio Stock Show and Rodeo is under way. As part of this annual event, the San Antonio Livestock Expo began its scholarship program in 1984. To date, their endeavors have contributed over $113 million to education in the form of scholarships, grants, endowments, junior livestock and western art auctions, a calf scramble program and show premiums paid to youth! With a strong foundation of giving and a mission of “emphasizing agriculture and education to develop the youth of Texas.”

My husband’s family has been part of the scholarship fundraising effort since 1986—the first year that they opened the Van de Walle Fajita Corral. Greg spent hours every day during Rodeo, often in freezing temperatures, helping to cook and serve chicken and beef fajita tacos to the hungry masses. The hat he wore every year has come to be known as The Fajita Hat. It used to be a lovely silver belly cowboy hat. Now it’s as floppy as a garden hat and smells like 20 years of BBQ smoke, and is stained with 20 years of smoke, grease, and beer. I’m not saying that like it’s a bad thing. An old cowboy hat is like a faithful old pickup truck. You just don’t get rid of something like that.

Since 1986, that one food booth alone has been able to donate over $2,000,000 to the scholarship fund. How awesome is that? Buy a fajita taco, send a kid to college!!

Also since that time, his family members have been active and faithful officers in the rodeo committee hierarchy, serving in various leadership roles. Recently we were honored to attend a ceremony for his Aunt Jackie, who was inducted into the San Antonio Stock Show and Rodeo Hall of Fame, for her years of work and support. We are so proud of and happy for her!

Jackie Van de Walle Dreher

Jackie Van de Walle Dreher

Aunt Jackie was in good company, being inducted alongside 2 other deserving and dedicated folks with servant’s hearts—Richard M “Tres” Kleberg III, and Danny Adams, who was given the award posthumously.

One of the most powerful moments of the evening for me came when Mr Kleberg spoke about what the rodeo meant for him. The Kleberg family descended from Richard King, of King Ranch fame. The King Ranch has long been one of the largest ranches in the world, with vast holdings around the globe. He said that as a boy he asked his dad what it meant to be a successful rancher, and I thought “good question”.  His daddy told him that to be successful, you must improve the breed. Then he spoke of his experiences with the San Antonio Rodeo—the satisfaction of working with a group of people who do what they do out of their faith in God, their love of family, and their passion to give back.

hall of fame

When we were pulling up to the event, you wouldn’t have seen more pickup trucks at a Chevy dealership. Inside the hall, were a few hundred people dressed in their rodeo finery. Looking out over a sea of silver belly cowboy hats(NOT stained with smoke and beer) did my heart good. It was nice to sit in a room where everyone stood for the same sorts of values. Three hundred people stood to pledge allegiance to the flag of The United States of America. Three hundred people remained standing to give thanks to God, and to ask for protection for the competitors in the upcoming rodeo. And I knew every last man in that room stood for God, family, and country. I also imagined what would happen to any wacko that entered that building hell-bent on violence. It’s sad that we live in a time when I even had to think that for a moment, but it was a comfort to know that such a wacko wouldn’t get very far. All those men would have jumped on him like a fat kid on a cupcake.

Real men, with the courage to stand for what they believe in, and the fortitude to fight for it. You, know. Cowboys.

beef fajitas

Beef Fajita Taco

Chicken Fajita Taco

Chicken Fajita Taco

Rodeo Fajitas

  • 3 pounds tenderized beef skirt, trimmed of the silver skin -OR- 3 pounds boneless skinless chicken breast or thigh meat
  • 1 cup soy sauce
  • 1 cup Worcestershire sauce
  • 1 cup olive oil
  • 1 can beer
  • 4 smashed garlic cloves
  • 2 chopped Serrano chilies

Place meat into a large zip top bag. Put all other ingredients into bag, and zip the bag shut, pressing out any excess air. Massage the bag to mix the marinade, and to make sure all of the meat is coated. Place bag in a large bowl, and marinate more 24 hours, turning a few times.

Grill over medium heat until starting to char a bit on the edges. Cut each beef skirt crosswise into pieces that are about 3 or 4 inches wide. Cut those pieces against the grain into thin strips.

Serve in warm flour tortillas, with the following suggested toppers:

  • grilled onions and bell peppers
  • shredded cheddar or jack cheese
  • sour cream
  • pica de gallo or salsa
  • chili con queso (click here to view my recipe)
  • guacamole (click here to view my recipe)

Personally, I just eat them with the fried onions and peppers, and eat my queso and guacamole with chips.

And fajitas should ALWAYS be served with Borracho (drunk) Beans.

Beef and Chicken Fajitas with Borracho Beans

Beef and Chicken Fajitas with Borracho Beans

Borracho Beans

• 1 pound cheap bacon, chopped
• 1 large onion, chopped
• 3 cloves garlic, minced
• 1-2 fresh jalapeno, chopped
• 2 pounds dry pinto beans
• Water
• 1 pint beer (nothing dark)
• 1 T salt
• 1 T ground black pepper
• 1 cup chopped, packed cilantro (optional)

Place bacon in dutch oven or stock pot over medium high heat. Cook until almost crisp. Add onion, garlic, and jalapeno, and cook for 3 minutes. Add beans. Cover with enough hot water to cover the beans by 3 inches. Place cover on pot, reduce heat to med-low, and simmer for an hour. Check periodically. If the water level falls below the beans, add some more to cover. After one hour, add the beer, salt and pepper. Cover and simmer on low for another 2 hours, stirring periodically, and adding more water if necessary. Stir in cilantro, and cook for another 30 minutes before serving. May place over super low heat to keep until ready to serve, stirring every once in a while.

Alternately, after frying the bacon and vegetables, place all ingredients in a crock pot, fill to the top with water, and cook overnight on medium.

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17 Comments on “Rodeos, Cowboys, and The Fajita Hat”

  1. 2013/02/04 at 12:41 pm #

    Wonderful post, wonderful story … and now I’m hungry. That’s a trifecta for you, right??? You’ve got an inspiring blog, and I’m happy to share this award with you.

  2. 2013/02/04 at 1:33 pm #

    You summed everything (about cowboys) up with your paragraph describing how everyone stood up — and stands up. It’s funny. I’ve never met a ‘bad’ cowboy. Nice story, as usual. The fajitas … Well, could you save me a few? They look delicious!

    • 2013/02/04 at 4:00 pm #

      Yeah…REAL cowboys are always good people…..Sometimes the drugstore kind are too! I’ll trade you some fajitas for some pretzel rolls…I am too lazy to make them.

  3. 2013/02/04 at 2:03 pm #

    Thank you for this! Part of our family is rodeo and I know they will enjoy it too. I look forward to your posts.

  4. 2013/02/04 at 2:21 pm #

    As a young farm lad who wore jeans, I read stories about the rodeo greats, like Jim Shoulders, when my parents purchased Levis for me. A little booklet was attached to the pair of Levis. Thus, I liked rodeos.

  5. Greg
    2013/02/05 at 8:57 am #

    I remember the booklets!

  6. 2013/02/08 at 1:34 pm #

    What an awesome recipe! Thanks for sharing. Should I wear my white hat when I eat this delicates?

  7. 2013/02/08 at 5:05 pm #

    That’s quite the connection to be made, between a horse and rider. To gain trust first, before anything. Thank you for the lesson and specially the yummy fajita! :9

  8. kelihasablog
    2013/02/08 at 5:10 pm #

    I always love the food ideas, but the stories are really nice too…

  9. 2013/02/10 at 11:08 am #

    Back in the day, I was one of those kids who received a scholarship from a rodeo–for art, no less. The Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo hosts an area wide student art show that showcases work that is related to the west, cowboys and rodeo life. Because of this program and scholarship, I was able to attend college.

    Love the post and thank you and your family for helping to make kids dreams of college come true! And the fajita pictures are making me hungry…

    • 2013/02/10 at 3:57 pm #

      Ah yes…..I cut my teeth at the Houston Show before I ever went to the San Antonio event. Good times at the Astrodome.

  10. 2018/05/27 at 6:36 pm #

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